10 signs you should marry your partner

The INSIDER Summary:

• There are a lot of little signs that can tell you whether or not a person is 'the one.'
• If your partner brings your coffee in bed, you want to hangout with them more than anyone else or if you can picture having with children with them then this person might be the one.

How do you know if you should marry your partner? It’s true that it is “just a feeling” to some extent. It’s really more about the kind of love you have and the kind of relationship you have with this person. 

A lot of people will tell you that falling in love is hard, but if you’re with the right person, it actually isn’t hard at all. You slip into it rather than fall. It feels natural to you. This person is your best friend. He’s the person you call whenever you have good news or bad news or just want to talk. She’s your person.

And if your partner happens to do these 10 things, you should marry that person IMMEDIATELY!

1. If your partner brings you coffee in bed

There is nothing sweeter than a person who wakes you up with a fresh cup of coffee, just the way you like it. He’s saying, “I know you won’t move until you have this, and I care enough about you to make sure you DO move.”

It’s more than just coffee that makes the person marriage material, it’s her notion of the little things, of seeing to your happiness in any way she can. If your partner puts your needs above her own and goes out of her way to make you feel adored, marry that person.

2. If she knows when you’re upset even without asking.

A person who really loves you pays attention to the way you act when you’re pissed off or hurt. Your partner doesn’t want you to feel this way, so he knows the signs of the fire. Too many times we see a person we’re dating get upset and decide to “let him simmer” because we don’t have the energy to deal with it.

If you’re S.O. cares enough to cuddle you (or stay away, whichever is best for you) and asks you what’s wrong, you should marry him.

3. If you have meaningful sex.

There is nothing wrong with dirty, kinky sex, but if you can really make passionate love, that’s a person you should put a ring on. It’s about so much more than sex, you’re actually making your pair bonding connection stronger through intercourse.

When my partner and I are making love (like really making love), candles lit, really slowly, it’s like our souls are connected. I know it sounds cheesy, but it is awesome.